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Another possibility.... Not to freak you out, but...
She may has a history of sexual abuse or assault that you don't know about. That can leave lingering "triggers", certain sensations or body regions that are "out of bounds" and, mentally, take the victim back to the incident of abuse. While you intend to be causing pleasure for her, you're actually causing feelings of being out of control, being trapped, etc.
By all means talk to her about it, just be prepared for ANYTHING she might say.
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