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Obviously I like receiving and I certainly get into giving.
My last girlfriend was kind of a problem on the giving side of things, though. For whatever reason, she was uncomfortable with it, but told me to do it anyway, and would get bent out of shape if I didn't, but when I did she was never into it. It's a tough bind to be in to on the one hand have them telling you they want it, objecting if you don't and all the while clearly not being very happy when it does happen.
I asked her in a round about way why this was a couple times but never got a decent answer. Technique was never the problem, as far as I know, since she would give me pointers whenever I was doing something she did or didn't like. It's just a bit tough to really get into it when you know she's thinking "I'm not sure I want him down there, but it feels good, but it's gross, but it's good, etc." the whole time.
Any ladies just comfortable enough to let their guys do it but still get a bit squeamish when it happens or have any idea what's up with this?
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