If a guy ever told me that he had to go look at other women in order to get aroused to have sex with me,I think I'd cry for days.
As it is,whenall the women a guy points out to you as beautiful look totally unlike you,it seems to me like he's sending you a pretty clear message,he's telling you what he finds beautiful and desirable... and baby,you aren't it.
Btw,I try not to comment with anything but"yes she's beautiful"
and I try not to notice those ackward moments when we're out together and convo stops because he's eyeballing some babe
and I'd never dream of invading his privacy by attempting to censor his reading material in any way.What does happen though is that I get the most powerful urge to withdraw,I look at the beautiful women he points out and then I go look in the mirror at myself,my shame and digust at my reflection makes me want to cover and hide my body from him and to bascially just withdraw,I'm so far from what he considers beautiful,it's pretty clear he just settled