here's my take on things... my ex had lots of "guy friends" some of them i was incredibly cool with and some i fucking suspected with all my being for one reason: they made themselves shady. they would call and hang up if i answered the phone, they were incredibly rude to me, they were just really asses (and it turns out i was right regarding more than one of them, but that's besides the point).
the best thing you can do to help your friend's boyfriend get over the whole you thing is to befriend him. hang with him, let him get to know you, let him know he's safe and not in any danger of losing her to you. if he's comfortable with you in his life, he'll be fine with you in hers. just don't do anything stupid like make a move on her - if you do, when he's done with you i'll give you a smacking-around.
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