18 is legal in your state, but I seriously doubt that you would get in much trouble for such a small age difference. If her mother has no way of proving you had the alchohol, I wouldn't worry about it.
I find the age of consent at 14 in some states disturbing. 16? sure, but 14? christ...
Yes, I checked the info from other sources, and it all appears to be valid. Oh, I forgot to mention that laws can be tricky in some states, alaska for example is 18 OR 3 years, IE 15/18,16/19,17/20... I'd do a lil research.
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