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there is no argument to be played out here BBtB. You are saying it is your right to have input into the decision, and it is. However it isnt your right to say "no you must bear my child". The actual process of bearing that child is left to the woman, and in doing so, she is the one who must make the ultimate decision.
You can have all the input you wish, but in the end, the final decision is hers.
The fact that you helped concieve this child is important, and so is your input into thedecision. However, if the woman decides she wants an abortion, how can you stop her (apart from becoming violent and/or restraining her physically)?
You can't!(unless she is considered unfit to make this decision - another discussion) Thus the ultimate decision is hers, not yours.
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