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Old 04-19-2003, 07:44 AM   #12 (permalink)
alpha phi
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a funeral has more to do with the living mourning their loss
than the person who died. after all they're dead
I've never seen the point myself, as I mourn inwardly and alone
however most people like to be with other loved ones for support, sympathy, pity, or whatever personal needs they have.
when I have to go to a funeral most people think I'm cold and unfeeling, which couldn't be further from the truth.
I just don't know what to say to people in mourning because I'd rather not be spoken to in my own grief
I hope at my funeral people do what ever they feel they need to
after all it's a party for them, not me.....I'm dead.
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