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Originally posted by Skettios
I've been told, that you finger around, but never in, in is not that exciting, and unpleasant to some girls. Most girls seem to prefer that. Anyone care to confirm?
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Depends on the situation and the person - but most of the women I've been with enjoy a fingers in them if they're getting some other stimulation as well (oral or more fingering to the labia and clit).
For the original poster: like most things i sex, you gotta ask to find out what works for the person you're with, or she's got to tell you. And believe me, the best thing for a good sex life isn't a hot bod, it's someone you feel relaxed enough to ask questions of and give suggestions to.
To offer some contrasts: I've been with women who want light stroking of the labia and find any touching of the exposed clit painful (too intense) and can only be touched through the hood; conversely, I've been with women who want the clitoral hood peeled back and the clit pulled and tugged directly.
More arousal tends to make women appreciate more vigorous work, but it's all down to the individual.