Well, the key is mutuality regarding the setup of the relationship. If all parties are relatively the same regarding the feelings towards openness, generosity, or freedom within the relationship, then I can't see how it would be a flaw to be generous towards another person in this respect.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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