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jhollon · 07-30-2011, 09:58 AM

Hello all:
First, let me dispense with the obvious. I am a married married. We celebrated our 19th anniversary in June. Quite frankly, I was very sure it would be our last.

I am 47. My wife is 42. She is an attractive woman but she acts as if she is an ogre. Truthfully, in the last 17 years our main struggle has been her lack of sexuality.

So, last week we had it out, or I should say, she yelled and screamed, I let her, she left, I let her. I was relieved and thought it was finally over. She came back Sunday. So, around 3:30 Monday morning, I got up and did some serious thinking.

See, we haven't had sex in months. We haven't touched, kissed, caressed. No physical contact at all. Part of it was because I was afraid if I touched her I would end up shoving her through the wall. I am a patient and peaceful man, but she has put me through the paces this year.

Well, on Monday morning, I finally made the decision as to what I was going to do. I decided I had had enough and that I would give her the ultimate ultimatum. At 6:30 am, before she could get out of bed, I pounced...quite literally. I pinned her to the bed and told her that the problem we are having is that she is not submissive to me. I told her that I was sick and tired of it and that from here on out, if she planned on staying in this house and staying married, she would be my submissive, sexslave slut. Yes, I put it that way. What did I have to lose? She had already left, her bags were still packed.
I Told her that, OR she could leave and not bother coming back.

To my surprise...she said..."yes, sir. I understand." It turns out that she has been craving to be the submissive sexslave all along! We have talked and she has asked that we carry this over to every aspect of our life.

That is where the site comes in. I have been searching for help with this because, frankly, I am not a dom by nature. I can dominate, but this is all new. I need to do this right.
Any help?

07-30-2011, 09:58 AM	#443 (permalink)
jhollon Upright	new and need advice Hello all: First, let me dispense with the obvious. I am a married married. We celebrated our 19th anniversary in June. Quite frankly, I was very sure it would be our last. I am 47. My wife is 42. She is an attractive woman but she acts as if she is an ogre. Truthfully, in the last 17 years our main struggle has been her lack of sexuality. So, last week we had it out, or I should say, she yelled and screamed, I let her, she left, I let her. I was relieved and thought it was finally over. She came back Sunday. So, around 3:30 Monday morning, I got up and did some serious thinking. See, we haven't had sex in months. We haven't touched, kissed, caressed. No physical contact at all. Part of it was because I was afraid if I touched her I would end up shoving her through the wall. I am a patient and peaceful man, but she has put me through the paces this year. Well, on Monday morning, I finally made the decision as to what I was going to do. I decided I had had enough and that I would give her the ultimate ultimatum. At 6:30 am, before she could get out of bed, I pounced...quite literally. I pinned her to the bed and told her that the problem we are having is that she is not submissive to me. I told her that I was sick and tired of it and that from here on out, if she planned on staying in this house and staying married, she would be my submissive, sexslave slut. Yes, I put it that way. What did I have to lose? She had already left, her bags were still packed. I Told her that, OR she could leave and not bother coming back. To my surprise...she said..."yes, sir. I understand." It turns out that she has been craving to be the submissive sexslave all along! We have talked and she has asked that we carry this over to every aspect of our life. That is where the site comes in. I have been searching for help with this because, frankly, I am not a dom by nature. I can dominate, but this is all new. I need to do this right. Any help?