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Just because you go to a swing club doesn't mean you have to have sex with others or even have sex at all. You should check out the clubs in your area and/or maybe hop on a swingers forum and make friends and get recommendations for clubs.
Personally, I'm not a fan of group sex. But I do enjoy having an audience (when I'm with my partner), whether it's one person or twenty. Swing clubs provide an environment where you can watch, perform with your partner, or participate in a group.
Why don't you go, agree not to have sex with anyone other than yourselves (if at all), and then just watch and learn? Go home, digest, discuss. Repeat? Participate? Decide it isn't for you?
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