clarksdale

My wife and I have a very honest and sexual relationship - we are very much on the same page in terms of levels of desire and adventure. (We are "trisexual" - willing to try anything once.) In the last couple of years, we've confessed to each other fantasies related to having sex in the presence of others, or being in sexually charged situations with others. We've read about swinging and I kind of think we are not ready for that - I'm not sure we want to have sex WITH other people. But there is this concept of "monogamous group sex" which is intriguing to us. It is very much a turn on for us to talk about and fantasize about that kind of situation.

We've been to one resort where there was sexual activity happening around us and found that it lead to incredible sex between us.

We are in our fifties, fit and healthy, so would strike most people as younger. I mention age because we are not wild twenty somethings, but adults who are mature and professional. My question is this - have others experienced this kind of development in their erotic life? Thinking about moving to the next step as you evolve sexually? Has it happened? Been a good thing to explore?