I'm not sure why rape got entangled in this discussion, but (like Poetry pointed out) it has created such a sharp tangent that there are in reality two conversations going on here.
And I will say it again 'cause for some reason no one wants to touch it. I have been told by men that sex is always on their mind in their dealings with women. If I had the time and inclination, I'm sure I could rummage the site and find dozens of examples of men claiming this to be true. Or, to make things easier, they could come forward now and admit to it or otherwise explain to me how I have misinterpreted this information.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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