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For myself its a mental game. If I start a session thinking just about how good it feels and how its gonna make me cum, Im gonna be ready to cum too soon. If I mentally prepare myself to give her a good orgasm I totally get motivated not to cum no matter how good it feels. Jacking off before love making to me would make the love making not as good because Im not as horny and not as sensitive. Insead of laying there and closing my eyes and sayin how good it feels, I get get into it and make my movements distintive and while telling her how good it feels I also tell her how good Im gonna make her feel. You gotta take charge and really love her how she wants to be loved. Get mad almost and determined. Its all mental. Dont jus fuck slower because you will get off too fast. Clue in on how she wants it, look her in the eyes and do that damn thang!
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