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Oo something I'm qualified to chime in on! :P
Um, here is things that have helped me deal with challenges in this area.
- it's not particularly romantic, but having had a wank sometime within the prior 2-12 hours helps desensitize my member, which helps.
- use other methods to move her along closer to her climax. This is not unpleasant anyway, but plenty of foreplay, including ultimately cunnilingus and/or masturbating her with your hand for a bit before you put Mr Happy on the spot is a good idea.
- once you're in, take it slow, take some pauses, don't just go for broke/til you bust. You can play a game of teasing her with it.
- find certain moves that she likes more than you do. There's a certain length of stroke that really gets me going, but I find she will react to these little strokes, almost just clenchings, that don't do that much for me, but do wonders for her. A good way to find out these moves is to let her be in charge, probably put her on top.
You obviously need a partner who will stick around through all this, and some folks might not, if they need a good 45 minute riding that never stops. I'm not one of those - my cock is too sensitive and my sexual desire too fierce to last that long. There ARE women who will appreciate you.
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