Basic: Go slow, have sex in slow motion. Add in lots of oral and finger sex.
Basic: Have you tried putting numbing cream on certain places?
Advanced: Look into SSRI (anti-depressants)pills to help with this. There was some research going into this a few years ago, but I haven't heard if they FDA approved it for this use yet. I can tell you that they do work. To the point where it is difficult to have an orgasm.
Advanced: Try to have multiple orgasms. Just keep going, even if it goes soft. It is probably best to try this alone at first in case it doesn't work.
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