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To gain control you need to find your cues, what gets you off. Everyone's a little different, some get off on the reactions/sound/sight of their partner. Others get off on their own sensations and thoughts and still others get off on who knows what. I have a friend who dated a wild Hippie Chick for awhile, now every time he smells Patchouli he almost jizz's in his pants. Figure out which way you swing and focus on the other. This has always worked for me. Get to know yourself and you can last for minutes or hours, your choice.
Other things that work well are pausing, as suggested above. Don't wait until you're ready to blow, but when you feel it starting to rise. Pause. Changing position or just stopping and kissing or playing with her breasts works well for a pause. Pull-out and slap her clit with your dick or just slide it across her labia. Porn stars do that for a reason. Changing sensation will slow the charge.
Masturbate before sex. It'll take you longer to recharge for the second blast.
Read the Kama Sutra. It contains hundreds of techniques and practices that will give you control of your body.
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