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Originally Posted by robiitis
Videos which would motivate guys leaving their comfort zone and do something to approach a girl would be enough. No false promises, statistics or anything, just help with getting to the girl and starting conversation.
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This.
All you need is to approach and talk. Sometimes somebody isn't interested, or is in a relationship and they have no choice but to nicely reject you. So then forget it. Would you be into every girl that approaches you?
The PUA assumptions are dead-wrong. PUA is only useful for getting your self confidence up to approach girls in all sorts of different situations in real life, not just in meat markets like bars or clubs; but these are the best starting points for practice.
The girls I have dated, they liked me b/c I treated them nicely. I've mostly always paid for all the dinners, open doors for them, etc. Yet, I also am not afraid of being myself and making pervy remarks, jokes, and being licentious. They appreciate it. I think they just want someone who's interesting. And yes, they've always stayed with me and no I am not the one being dumped :P
If you are paying for everything and too afraid of being yourself (ie putting the girl on a pedestal), then of course you won't get anywhere. But just being yourself is the key, I think.