Kookookachoo - Yeah, that's entirely possible and/or probable. And if that's the case, that's fine. It would make it even more feasible for me to move in because I know that I'm solidly in the friend zone instead of "having a chance." Ya know?
KirStang - I don't think she's using me, really. We're pretty good friends, and I don't give her anything, buy her drinks, dote over her, or any of that. We sit around and have a good time and share a lot of common interests, but that's pretty much it right now. Of course, I've thought about what might happen if/when she brought someone home, but if that happened it would only serve to further cement the friend-zone and therefore I can reduce my expectations. Make sense?
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