Is she, perhaps, telling you that she's frustrated by all of these pronouncements of feelings in order to make it clear to you that she is not interested in them...and making sure you know she isn't interested in them...so you can move forward.
I would have a hard time moving in under these circumstances unless I spoke to her about my feelings. That will mean one of two things: 1) she reciprocates and admits she was inviting you to move in with her in hopes that something would develop; 2) she says, "oh no, not again" and you can't move in. And, since you're saying the place isn't perfect for you, #2 isn't totally bad.
Talk to her, tell her that you know she's been bombarded with this stuff recently and that you were hesitant to talk about it but the situation has come to a head.
Good luck...hope it goes well.
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