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Old 06-15-2011, 06:42 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Darrylcwc View Post
You are wrong. It is rationale. Every actions brings about a casual effect very much in the same way that the greater the amount of heat supplied to the kettle, the greater the intensity the vibration of atoms which configures the kettle.
Assume one day I return the favor to her in anyway distasteful, and the consequence of that results in her being in despair. Following your line of reasoning, the fault must lie with her if she is unable to cope with the damage. There is no way you can disagree for disagreeing would result in the contradiction of your proposition.
So in your estimation, everyone who gets rejected should feel seething hatred for the one who rejected them?

No, that it not the way it is. There is nothing that you have written here about this woman that rationalizes the extremity of the language you use to express your feelings. There is very little that someone could do outside of bodily harm or equally malicious emotional damage that would rationalize it. Even then it is an unhealthy reaction that should be dealt with professionally because it is not her actions that are causing it. Your mind, your thoughts.
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