Quote:
Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Your insistence that the quality of your thoughts are not really your own but are caused by the actions of another are not rational. Shit happens. People aren't always great to each other. That's not a free pass to uninhibited hatred. You will not be free of this until you realize *you* are the one betraying yourself. I've no interest in how nice you think you are. What you are showing to us here is unabashed self-indulgence making whatever you claim this woman did to you seem suspect. Your imagination has already proved to be very flowery.
|
You are wrong. It is rationale. Every actions brings about a casual effect very much in the same way that the greater the amount of heat supplied to the kettle, the greater the intensity the vibration of atoms which configures the kettle.
Assume one day I return the favor to her in anyway distasteful, and the consequence of that results in her being in despair. Following your line of reasoning, the fault must lie with her if she is unable to cope with the damage. There is no way you can disagree for disagreeing would result in the contradiction of your proposition.