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OmnicronPercei8 · 06-12-2011, 02:08 PM

There are some decent replies back to this thread which made me think I am in the right place. I am coming from not knowing with my most recent ex. A month ago she was confirming that I was the best thing that had ever happened to her and how she couldn't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. Two weeks after she had broken up with me and conveniently met someone that following weekend. The next weekend they were hanging out at some bluegrass rock festival for the entire weekend. She keeps claiming to me that she hasn't done anything with this guy because after we broke up she claimed she wanted a celibate relationship until marriage. I'm sure she's saying that to not hurt me any further than she has by ending it, but at the same time she's also indicated that she doesn't ever want to try to make it work with me so I don't see her point in lying.

In any case because she lives between the closest store that I go to (several times a week long before she moved there) I have noticed on three occasions another car parked there. It's every other weekend when she has her kid and wouldn't travel to see this guy (who lives about 2 hours away). I'm not trying to be a stalker here but that same vehicle was in her driveway when we were still together. I never accused her about it but when I texted her when I saw it parked the first time she claimed that she didn't respond for a while because her gay friend was visiting. On the second time I saw it there (the following weekend after we broke up) I had texted her a couple of times and she never responded until the next day. I said she must have been having a good time with someone to ignore me which she had never done and she told me to calm down that it wasn't romantic (again I didn't say anything about the vehicle I don't recognize). It was there again this weekend.

I guess I just need perspective. If it's over it's over and I can get by with that but if she cheated on me I want to know damn it. It could end this emotional suffering I have been put through and I can just write her off. If I never know then she could come back into my life and I would always wonder. What the hell do I do?

-Edit - I'm saying if I didn't know 100% sure that she was indeed cheating on me because it could be her gay friend then I would never try to accuse her about it if there was a chance we could work out. If I knew for certain then hell no I wouldn't take back that cheating slut.

06-12-2011, 02:08 PM	#44 (permalink)
OmnicronPercei8 Upright	There are some decent replies back to this thread which made me think I am in the right place. I am coming from not knowing with my most recent ex. A month ago she was confirming that I was the best thing that had ever happened to her and how she couldn't wait to spend the rest of our lives together. Two weeks after she had broken up with me and conveniently met someone that following weekend. The next weekend they were hanging out at some bluegrass rock festival for the entire weekend. She keeps claiming to me that she hasn't done anything with this guy because after we broke up she claimed she wanted a celibate relationship until marriage. I'm sure she's saying that to not hurt me any further than she has by ending it, but at the same time she's also indicated that she doesn't ever want to try to make it work with me so I don't see her point in lying. In any case because she lives between the closest store that I go to (several times a week long before she moved there) I have noticed on three occasions another car parked there. It's every other weekend when she has her kid and wouldn't travel to see this guy (who lives about 2 hours away). I'm not trying to be a stalker here but that same vehicle was in her driveway when we were still together. I never accused her about it but when I texted her when I saw it parked the first time she claimed that she didn't respond for a while because her gay friend was visiting. On the second time I saw it there (the following weekend after we broke up) I had texted her a couple of times and she never responded until the next day. I said she must have been having a good time with someone to ignore me which she had never done and she told me to calm down that it wasn't romantic (again I didn't say anything about the vehicle I don't recognize). It was there again this weekend. I guess I just need perspective. If it's over it's over and I can get by with that but if she cheated on me I want to know damn it. It could end this emotional suffering I have been put through and I can just write her off. If I never know then she could come back into my life and I would always wonder. What the hell do I do? -Edit - I'm saying if I didn't know 100% sure that she was indeed cheating on me because it could be her gay friend then I would never try to accuse her about it if there was a chance we could work out. If I knew for certain then hell no I wouldn't take back that cheating slut. Last edited by OmnicronPercei8; 06-12-2011 at 02:11 PM..