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She is sorry she got caught, and then came up with sorry excuses. During the course of my life I have been suprised by just how dumb men can be. Knew one girl who we called 'the eternal virgin'. I think she gave her virginity to 20 or so men over the course of time. They all believed it, they all, in their turn, treated her like some princess - which is of course, often a mistake. I look at some who believe they are princesses - and they have obviously been manipulative dogs - but they train the new men in their lives - guess the word man-ipulative fits. As a mum, I think glad my son didnt get tucked up with something like that. (I said to him once - why is he matey acting like a fool - big tats over his back of her name after a couple of weeks - nasty skank whore - I said why does he thin she is a princess? Son said 'that'll be because she takes it up the shitter' - I dont know, the older I get, the less I understand people) Of course there are men who behave in this way too. Its not a case of gender, its a case of people. I have known couples who have 'open marriage' - but myself, I dont see how that works, and have never been interested in knowing.
If you are both of the same ilk op, then you may be able to happily spend your lives together like this - but if you are in opposite corners on the subject of screwing other people, either one of you has to change their character and deny what they realy want and become something they are not - or you agree to disagree. At least you found out now. Okay, so they say Michael Douglas changed, is faithfull - but there was that pre nup to encourage him - and is a tad old and no-one wants to die alone - so who knows..... and thats assuming he changed his spots.
Poetry - when at college we had this conversation on where we expected to end up in life. I said I would end up as a mad cat lady - stinking of cat pee, things probably nesting in my hair and mad as a bucket of frogs. Funny because I love dogs - oh wow. Just realised how close I have come to achieving them - I have had the poorly bed wetters in with me in the past - touch wood none are dying at present and all kidney functions are presumably okay. My hair often looks like things could be nesting in it. Still got time to go though.
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