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Originally Posted by EventHorizon
people dont deserve anything. you get what you earn and there is nothing that says people are entitled to anything ever, including a second chance. She's a grown woman, she knew the consequences, get rid of her (not in the Pulp Fiction sense of course)
/cynicism
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I couldn't agree more. Someone already posted this but the worst thing about all of this is the lying. I've always told my wife that if she was going to cheat on me I want to know before hand. She can walk away whenever she likes but don't lie to me. Lying is the worst thing you can do in a relationship because it undermines everything that a relationship is supposed to be about.
The red flag that I read in this situation is that she lied to you and didn't bother breaking down until after she knew she was caught. To me it say the cheating didn't bother her as much as the getting caught did.
If you treated her right you deserve better. If this was me I would dump her because I couldn't trust her anymore. But it's not about how I feel, it's how you feel. You need to look deep down in yourself because if you have any reservations about her at all, it will get a lot worse when you're actually married.
Good luck with whatever choice you decide.