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Thank you all for offering your thoughts on this one. I have come up with a proposal. I will try to balance it according to the opinions received.
1.) Have honest discussion in which I give her a last chance to say the truth.
2.) I Forgive her.
3.) The marriage is off.
4.) We're still engaged, but we need time (may be 2 or 3 years) to learn to trust each other again and see how things turn out. We'll need counselling here. May be live together and see how it works.
5.) If after this period we're both satisfied with our lives, then we'll think marriage.
6.) If she messes up during step 4, then I'll forget about her.
What do you think?
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