ditch the bitch
( only if you want to feel better )
Every person who faces rejection is up for a lot of pain, because they are always surprised and shocked by it...simply because they didn't expected to be rejected otherwise they'd never ask in the first place!
i dunno about seeing a professional dlish then it's making it something it's not. what do you think?
personally i think you can never be friends with someone who rejects you...but get this, in some screwed up way it makes you more attractive to them if you reject their friends request. Cause what you do, is you wait like so long being ruthless and not talking to them at all, then send them a random message acting all happy and cool, saying if you two want a coffee to catch up. there you don't bring up your feelings, just talk about how good and happy you are.
It makes them think you aren't a sucker for them anymore, how you are seeing other girls or hanging with them or talk about her friends (makes her jealous ) seeing you all happy turns you into their regret, and other sub conscious messages that for some crazy reason woman find attractive. You can't ever let yourself be an option to woman, but rather a solution to all their .... insecurities? i don't even know man.
the point is women are in some ways ruthless, ruthless, creatures. they go for guys with the most challenge, and the only way to be a challenge is not let them win you over, so you gotta reject her.
the reason this is so bullshit is because it means you've got to do the opposite to what your feelings tell you to get her.
i can tell you are being too kind because you are letting it be about 'her reasons for rejecting you, it's about you not confessions fast enough for her, and about you waiting and preserving youself for her again.
i know what you mean with your feelings though, when you face any kind of rejection the thing you miss out on like begins to infect your mind and every thought you have always ends up converting into a thought about that person or thing.
DAM WOMEN WAT IS WRONG WIF U I THOUT U WERE DA 1 4 ME
Last edited by Sheepy; 05-28-2011 at 04:20 AM..
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