girldetective

Its true. I need to remember why I moved and let that go. Im working on it.
More though, Im trying to feel settled in this new place, which is the place I lived in
with my ex when we divorced. It was my ex who I helped, a victim of the bad economy.

Im back here now, with all this detritus spread thinly all over everything.
Trying to incorporate my new life into the old one is next to impossible Nothing fits
right. Its all pointy vs curvy, sunny vs shady, big vs little. Each time I go to do something,
I have to undo something first, and when I finally get my thing in place, its funky.
This has gone on and on. I keep moving, but Im making little headway to the comfort zone.

I think a reasonable plan is to do the things I would like to see done, and which will up the
value of the house. Of course it will be hell to sell in this miserable market, but the value will
not be only in $$, but also in my well-being. Then, Ill take a look again in a year or so.
I think another move at this time might kill me.

willravel: That is very good advice regarding subcity living and neighbors. Why is that?
The car culture that the burbs necessitate?

kramus: I like your tone, and find it helpful and true. Thanks for reminding me.

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