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I am not in this position, but was just thinking thoughts.
The idea wouldn't be to spring it on her (i.e. make her decide then and there), but get the financial adviser to do a sort of 'standard financial health check' as part of which s/he brought up the issue of prenups (i.e. "oh so you're thinking of marrying, well in that case I recommend....."). Then we could go away and talk it over in a more calm and rational way. My thinking being, that if one of the couple brings it up then the other one will always suspect that they are being pressured to agree (and hence might not), but if a neutral third party raises the issue....
Anyway, such issues are far off in the future for me. But it is an issue that concerns me given the number of divorces I see around me.
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