I took another look at Nikki's UBG thread. I really like the way the thread began but thought that generally the rest of it, well, sucked
Most of the followup posts read to me like some Farker channeling a 4Chan conversation. Not much interaction, more a series of OMGs
A little while ago here on TFP I responded to a blog post where a TFPer who was a rookie at the task was asking for advice on how to give head. I posted a fairly long response. Unfortunately she has yet to get back to us with a report/powerpoint presention/hothot video
Today I thought I ought to repost my response to that TFPer in a more accessible way. After all, it took a bit of work, and I really do feel that a good writeup from the perspective of the recipient wouldn't be amiss
My writeup was geared to a complete novice who had a minimum of foreplay experience, had never taken a load anywhere near the face (she was gun shy about ejaculate), and was concerned about how to handle the unexplored territory of deep throat. At times a money shot may be taken differently than what I recommended here. Also, some folks like little or no hand action. I never even started on foreplay, setting the scene, or playing to the camera. For all that, I think my writeup covers a lot of ground.
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Sorry for the long post, but what the hey. If I can assist you in your efforts both you and your lover will find the input worthwhile. Trust me, I get this sort of attention and love, love, love it.
Now, you are hesitant to take on a full load of jizz but apparently have been orally stimulating a hard cock. If your man has been anywhere near as involved in what you've been doing as I tend to get when my Lady is giving me a good going over, you will have already been tasting plenty of his pre-cum during these foreplay/heavy petting sessions.
I think if you take it further you can control what you experience while making some lucky guy's day. You are hesitant to take a full, deep mouthful of cock (i.e. deepthroat). Not necessary - very nice but not necessary. Work the head/glans with sucking and licking and pulling your lips around the curves that are there (your guy will let you know if you are sucking too hard or licking too softly). Lick and mouth your way up and down the shaft, cup the balls, stroke his inner thighs and lower belly, and keep making eye contact.
Not necessarily psycho locked on eye contact, but be sure that he is watching you. After all, you are a sexy cock-sucker who is sharing what you are doing because it is hot for both of you. Performers are told to keep the audience engaged with their eyes this way. You are not just sharing in a sexual experience but putting on a performance for a fascinated audience of one. Guys can't get enough of watching, and will happily sit you beside a mirrored door in order to enjoy the view from multiple angles. Don't be afraid of looking like you are a wanna-be porn star. You
are a porn star, his personal one-on-one porn queen who will change things up upon direction, and is ready, willing and very happy to follow whatever he suggests while the blowjob is underway. Look slutty, exaggerate your licking of the cock, stop to softly kiss the taut head while whispering whatever you can think of that is hot and intimate. This is a wonderful moment in time, play with that moment and make it a memorable one.
Do fist pumping while working the head and the upper part of his shaft with your mouth/lips/tongue. Even feathery eyelash kisses, or a light scraping of your teeth are good. When a guy is right into it and can see what you are doing this part is pure gold. If you lick your lips, blow gentle puffs of air at his cock, wipe it around your cheeks and eyes, drape your hair over it, and tell him you just love the way he feels in your mouth or that you love sucking on his cock - well, those moments will stay with a guy for a long, long time
Be sure to ask about hand movement because for you this will be key. I like counter-stroking. By that I mean when you take the cock into your mouth you are holding the shaft in your fist. Lower your head/take the cock into your mouth a bit and at the same time you pump your fist up till it touches your lips. As you draw back your fist slides down the wet cock to the base. Spread your hands out and stroke the full base of the cock, the joining of the scrotum to the body, get it all slick and well stroked. You can play a bit with saliva, you know. Let a small rope attach from the head of his cock to your tongue while looking into his eyes. Very hot, that. Also pumping the cock while the head goes in and out of your open mouth while holding eye contact. Yum, not only do I love to see that action but it feels amazing. Depending on your positions, you can stroke his thighs with your breasts, rub your clit on his shins and feet, or position yourself so he can watch your breasts, ass, etc as well as your eyes and mouth. This is more important than you may realize because we men are visual creatures. You can actually put your whole body into a blowjob. Watching a woman work her whole torso and move her hips like she's both being fucked and sucking at the same time really gets me totally involved, because she looks totally involved. Lift and cup your breast, tug or lightly scratch your nipples, stroke your own belly, pussy or ass, swing yourself around when kneeling beside him so he can also caress you - this is such a lovely part of getting a blowjob.
When into it, but before it gets too far along, tell your fella you want to take his cum on your lips, cheek and chin. This will let him know you want him to cum while also telling him you aren't quite ready to take a load down the throat yet. You may want to let him know if holding your head/hair is ok, or how much you will take of his riding into your mouth. Stop and look at his cock while holding it by the base. Make him feel how you love the sight of that hard wet cock in your hand, twitching and throbbing from the attention you've been giving it.
Then when he is ready to cum, go with it. Take the spurts onto your cheek, outside of your mouth, squeeze the head of his creaming cock with your fist and slide it up and down. Be willing to let him spurt away. Sometimes too much stimulation at this point is almost sensory overload. Just ride it out, make happy gasping sounds and watch his face. Remember, it is your orgasm too because you brought it on. Enjoy the moment. Just don't point the urethra up your nostrils or into your eyes. Jets of spunk in the nose or into the eyes can be a mood killer. At least for the one giving head.
When your lover is not thrashing around as much while making guttural cursing sounds you can carefully take the head of his freshly creamed cock into your mouth. What you do is up to you, but because you are a little gun-shy so to speak, I would recommend squeegeeing the leftover cum away from the head of his cock with your forefinger and thumb, and slowly wiping his cock off on your cheeks. Even try using the outer corners of your lips almost like a snowplow to push any excess away from inside of your mouth. You will taste fresh cum but the amount will be greatly reduced and the texture is under control. Besides, the after cum gentling down of a still twitching erection is almost as much fun as the buildup. Makes the whole experience more complete, somehow. If you are in an experimental mood give his shaft long, slow, luscious licks at this point. If you find the cum taste a bit much you just let it run back out of your mouth with your saliva and work the mix into his scrotal area. It will feel good, look hot, and give you more control of the experience.
btw, for extra points be ready to go get a
warm moist facecloth to clean off your man's courting tackle. Get right down to the crack in his ass cheeks and make it all tidy. You can clean off your hands and face at this point. And then cuddle a bit while he tells you what a hot cock-sucker you are. Before the final cleaning (or after, that works too) take his still hard cock and ride it cowgirl while rubbing your breasts and licking your lips. What can be hotter than looking at a lovely naked woman riding and groaning and rubbing her breasts while your cum is still all over her lips, cheeks and chin? Yum.
Finally, if you plan on putting anything into your mouth before giving head be wary of bubbly liquid/pop rocks (burns inside the urethra). Too-hot liquids are to be approached with caution (hot or cold are great, too hot or too cold are too much). Sweets and syrups and such, if not completely licked up during the blowjob can become tacky/sticky and pull painfully on the skin of an erect shaft if your hands aren't thoroughly moist - that can be an uncomfortable buzzkill. Note - if you introduce sugar into a vagina it can lead to yeastie beasties.
Now go blow him away
