You soooooooo absolutely need to be 100% comfortable with the "other" person. You need to talk with her and lay out ground rules. One of mine is no kissing. Everything else is fine but kissing is emotional and I don't want my man or the other girl to get emotional over each other.
If you decide you do want to try it with the other person, then you also need to lay out ground rules with them. All 3 of you must talk openly about it and lay them out and stick to them. I also said, no texting and no phone calls. This is sex and fun only!
Laying out the rules is a must! Trust is numero uno between all parties. If they cross the line... Game over!
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