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Originally Posted by Sheepy
is it easy having a conversation with him about it or close to it? that shouldn't be a problem if you connect emotionally well!
*EDIT* I you hit up 'my husbands penis is too small' or something similar in Google you'll notice there are actually a lot of conversations about it.
Apparently there are a few exercises and methods he could try to increase his size but getting him started would be a challenge to his confidence...
have you thought about buying a dildo ?
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Thank you so much for your reply, really appreciate it. I would have to say this is prob not something we can talk about yet, here's hoping maybe in the future as we explore what each other likes and dislikes. There's really no polite way to say it, that there's a disconnect sexually & cause I don't really enjoy foreplay, that much, could attribute to the awkwardness that was an unplanned incident
I've decided to try and wait and see how things go, maybe improve, my friends said their first times with boyfriends haven't been great until much later so i guess just have to wait and see. Perhaps I've been spoiled with a stress free love life & mutual equipment has worked before this relationship so my reaction is a bit more shocked than others might perceive this situation. Thanks for the google recommendation
& haven't tried any sex toys before - know how to self service when needs must...
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Originally Posted by dlish
ambrosia - define 'small'. is it small because he's not fully erect?
to be honest, im concerned about two things about yourself that i picked up on than his 'little' problem.
1) why are you using **** instead of words? this smells of a cocooned upbringing, and this will be manifesting itself in your actions. we're an adult forum, and we've seen everything under the discussed in here. the word 'ORGASM' is not taboo here.
2) why are you stressing him out? you may not think so, but you dont have to say anything for non verbal communication to take place. maybe the reason for his non performance is contributed to you.
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It was fully erect - maybe 7cm/3 inches. I'm sorry, didn't mean to offend anyone - wasn't entirely sure how forward I was allowed to write about these things with the word censoring- thanks for clearing that up
Yeah I honestly feel like there's something wrong with me too, I have taken your observation into consideration. There is a lot of pressure, I feel really guilty that I can't orgasm with him at all, when with my previous sexual partners it's happened easily. Maybe put it down to a less than perfect first time together, but it left me feeling really sad. Because I want so desperately for our beautiful relationship to communicate sexually as well. I know most women say size doesn't matter, but I think in some ways it does.
Time can only tell.
I hope I haven't offended anyone by posting this issue - suppose sex is an important thing to me, personally, so that's sort of the motivation to ask for advice - because I'm not familiar with this situation.
Thanks for all your feedback