I find talking about self servicing unsexy, moodkilling and I suppose a little un-lady like... would much prefer action to self satisfying haha I find it pretty boring, and only do it to serve the purpose of myself not going completely crazy every so often or if I have a lover that doesn't meet my needs sexually. Maybe over time it's one of those things that will develop and I'll be more comfortable but masturbation and foreplay, just feel incredibly awkward...less natural!
