Genuinegirly - I am on that. I have an appoint scheduled with the my ob. But thanks for the additive advice of pre-menopause.A friend of mine has been asking me this question for the last 6 months. i guess she sees something I don't.
Daniel - I will honestly say I pride myself on not faking it. And besides, my bf is so intuned with my body he knows an orgasm when he feels one. Even if I was a faker he would know. I know it means a lot to the male populations if women don't fake.
My last sentence is exactly what happens. I do not have vaginal orgasms, but have them the other ways I listed.
ASU2003 - medications could be a factor. we have a no holds barred sexual relationship, the sky is the limit. I am far from being a prude.
I have been overly stressed with another area in my life and i have talked about it way to much, so now i am internalizing it because i need to change for the situation to get better. but i am not willing to roll over and accept. i need the happy medium!
i went from being vaginally multi-orgasmic to not even getting close to an orgasm during intercourse.
As far as my initiation, during the day are my peak moments and let him know usually via text messenging, i have a very demanding job, so it's an automatic escapade as soon as we see each other. our time is very limited. having real time for our escapades is always a challenge, but we manage.
I thank you for your comments. it has helped so much. anything else you want to share i will definitely be checking the post everyday.
Thanks again for your support.
