I forgot to put intelligence...but to me, it's just a given. I dated a guy once who thought I was brilliant to the point that he claimed my intelligence made him feel inadequate (yeah, sure, let's blame how smart I am). One of the things I appreciate about my husband is that we have complementary intelligences. We're both incredibly smart people, but in different ways, and so it works quite well.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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