You should mention this change to your ob/gyn. It is a symptom of pre-menopause. Your boyfriend sounds like an understanding guy who would like to see you happy. Perhaps he will be more at-ease if he is aware that you are seeking treatment. In the meantime, let him know that you're having a good time (even without an orgasm) and that seeing him enjoy makes you feel satisfied. Make sure he knows that you don't blame him for your lack of orgasm.
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