No Orgasm during sex
Hello.
I am new here seeking advice how to handle my situation. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and the sex is off the chain. Within the last year or so I have stopped having an orgasm during intercourse.
My bf feels like it's him and I don't. I am afraid to have this conversation with him because he is a sensitive person and I don't want to make him feel inadequate. I am totally pleased with our sex life, but since i don't orgasm the way I used too, he feels like he can't please me. No matter what I say that's his position. I have orgasm during oral, finger stimulation and anal.
1. Any men out there reading, how do I approach this situation? I understand men can feel inadequate if the conversation is not approached correctly.
2. Women reading this post, have you had a similiar experience? What did you do. I am in my early 40s and feel like my body is changing; which has nothing to do with my bf pleasing me.
Thanks in advance.
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