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Originally Posted by james t kirk
Also, as I've gotten older, infidelity is no longer a deal breaker for me. I encourage my current GF to have sex with other men if she wants to. (I'm a bit of a kinker that way and I love hearing about her past experiences.
As I've gotten older, I have come to the realization that pretty much everyone cheats at one time or another. I accept this and I sleep better in this acceptance.
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Hey James,
Thanks for your honesty ... I am hesitant to lay my cards on the table and talk freely about my ideas/opinions about sex but here goes ...
I can relate to a lot of what you said ... I get turned on when my man talks about his past and some of his sexual "conquests." I am sure some of them are from the not so recent past and in large part I don't ask and he doesn't tell.
So do I think he sleeps with other women from time to time, absolutely. Does it bother me, no, but I am also of the age where I am not looking for the love of my life and he and I are good friends and have the kind of sex that I don't get from more traditional relationships.
So it's whatever works and what works for some people does not work for others.
LunarEclipse