Originally Posted by sclose

Haha, and that's exactly why I got into this.

I've heard that probably a thousand times. I've heard it from my mom, and just about everybody else who has no idea what is really going on. "Just be honest and be yourself." I'm not saying it's wrong, it's completely true. You should be honest and be yourself. However, it's crappy advice. Many guys don't meet girls because they are themselves too much. They sit around, watch tv and eat potato chips. They need to push themselves to go out and to be around girls. They need to push themselves out of their comfort zone and do something different, because what they are doing isn't working.