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namonaipeht · 05-03-2011, 04:26 AM

My wife and I have been together 6 years, and she wants to start a three way relationship. I'm okay with that but how do you find the right person? She has somebody in mind, but the guy she's interested in is not really my type. We don't have much in to bond with. So she wants to still be friends with him, but I feel uncomfirtaqble with her around him knowing he wants her sexually. I know she loves me and wouldn't do anything to intentionally mess what we have, but I have a hard time trusting her around him. Should I tell her I don't want her to see him anymore? Or try and get along with him even though we don't have common ground to bond on?

05-03-2011, 04:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
namonaipeht Upright	Starting a three way relationship. How to find the right person? My wife and I have been together 6 years, and she wants to start a three way relationship. I'm okay with that but how do you find the right person? She has somebody in mind, but the guy she's interested in is not really my type. We don't have much in to bond with. So she wants to still be friends with him, but I feel uncomfirtaqble with her around him knowing he wants her sexually. I know she loves me and wouldn't do anything to intentionally mess what we have, but I have a hard time trusting her around him. Should I tell her I don't want her to see him anymore? Or try and get along with him even though we don't have common ground to bond on?