Seaver: You're completely off the mark.
Apparently everybody here thinks I'm taking advantage of people. Interesting...
It's not that at all.
Also, it sounds like everybody has a picture of me being "some kid" who "thinks he has all the tricks" who "wants to take money from loser guys." That's kind of amusing...
Anyways, sounds like everybody here already has great self esteem, can have the relationship of their dreams and they never fight with their girlfriend, wife, or family. Their lives are just perfect so they can't improve. Even if it isn't perfect, there's nothing you can do but 'sit back, watch TV and let life hit you.'
Incase you didn't know, nobody is perfect. Anything worth value in life takes some form of effort. That includes great relationships.
Of course, admitting that we suck at relationships or we can do better hits directly on most people's personal insecurities.
All the successful people I know (in any part of their relationship) can put their insecurities behind them and figure out what they can do better. Nobody is perfect and everybody can do some part of their life better.
No... I'm one of those guys who likes to take advantage of weak guys. Please.
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