No, you sound like a guy in his Sophomore year in College and learned how to fake confidence. You may have gotten lucky 2-4 times on it, mostly by girls who have major self esteem issues themselves, and now you think you have discovered the vault key.
The truth is the self esteem comes with experience and age, and tricks like these stop working pretty quickly once everyone enters the real world. The ones who it continues to work on, aren't worth being with anyways.