1. Talk to her about it. Let her know that you want more intimacy with her.
2. Have her get a physical and talk to her doctor about her libido
3. As already mentioned, focus on HER. Talk to her, help her, spend time with her, pamper her, leave her love notes.
4. Tell her OFTEN that you love her and prove it by doing things for her
5. It's time for your 3 year old to spend the weekend with Grandma (or friend) and for the two of you to have 48 hours locked in a hotel room
6. Think "romance" every day
7. Give her some time alone. You babysit and let her go out to a movie, shopping or anything she wants for a day.
8. Rent some romantic movies
9. Give her massages
10. Take long baths or showers together (after the 3 year old is asleep)
One of the best aphrodisiacs is personal attention. Love her and you'll both get rewarded.
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