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Wow i just found this forum looking for advice articles, and its scary how much we are in the same situation. This conversation really helped me but I wanted to share some stuff Ive learned from my relationship. You stated at one point how you didn't understand why he wasn't attracted to her because you thought she had all these great qualities. Well I was like you at one point, always jealous, and I never thought I could shake it, but over time and believe me it's still not perfect, but over time it does get better. One thing that I always tell myself whenever I am jealous of some girl that my boyfriend is hanging out with is that he loves me for these reasons, and she doesnt have those qualities. So instead of focusing on the all these qualities that some other girl has, focus on the qualities that YOU have and think about those. Not only will it make you feel better about yourself, but over time all those jealousy issues will fade away and you and your boy can be happy. I hope all is well with you two and wish you the best of luck!
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