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Originally Posted by Kreal
Part of me of course is still wanting her back, but thats to be expected as I am a weak-hearted person when it comes to being alone. Its like she was one step from marriage, one step from the top of the ladder and she just jumped down all of the steps. Now she is without a future, a home and stability . I really don't understand it and I dont think I ever will.
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You said that you two discussed marriage, but how deeply? The way I read your post, she's needy with a history of bad relationships, and you stepped in to buy, fix and give within days of meeting her. You probably saw that as rapid steps towards something permanent, but did she? In your rush to get into the relationship I think you missed some pretty big warning signs.
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Originally Posted by Kreal
What I do find odd is that she ignores me when I ask her where she wants me to drop her things off at. I tell her 'Where do I put your things? I'll drop them off anywhere just tell me where, I want them out of my house'. And there is never a reply.
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She's hedging her bets in case things don't work out with what's her name. For the sake of your self respect (and emotional well being), don't be a doormat.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Is "dyke" really appropriate language here, TFP?
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I wouldn't ever use that term personally, but some lesbians self-identify with it. In the context of the posts here I think you're right though.