You were her Prince Charming. You rescued her and gave her what she always wanted. She was appreciative and loved what you did for her. She's 24 and was doing what many young girls in that situation would do. She's young and mistook gratitude for love.
I understand the bond with the kids and if there was any way you could maintain some sort of visitation with the kids, that would be great. However, I get the feeling that it would not be good for either you or her kids in the not-distant future.
I'm with the majority. Cut your losses. Stop allowing her to take advantage of your kindness. You have a big heart and sound like a good guy, but looking for women to rescue sounds like an invitation that will likely end badly. You're young and have plenty of time to find what you're looking for.
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Mark Twain
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