Hi all,
Thanks for the replies thus far. She is 24 and I am 25. I love her dearly and I am uncertain with myself if I would be able to take her back. Its almost as if my mind has two sides, one side wants her back and will do anything even allow her to see the other girl on the side. The other side of me tells me that what she did wasn't right and I should move on as it will probably happen again if I did take her back. I am so confused.
As to the car mentioning, I am just a bit different than most in what I collect and restore, I dont know any other person like me, even if age was irrelevant Its just what I enjoy in life, but it is second to family and love. I only mentioned my car collection in terms of portraying who I am, and to explain why I work all of the time and put my all into things so that she could be a stay at home mother (I offered, she said she wanted to do) but we never spoke of it again. And for us to retire early. Its not like I spent my time in bars or out doing nothing, I was working towards providing a better life for us.
At this point I am unsure what to do.. its just, ah...something I wouldnt wish to happen to anyone.
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