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When trust is gone - whats left. Sorry Hulk, your female companion is an absolute bitch. She is playing the old guilt transference game. You have ADHD - (son has ADD) - she knew your problems related to the ADHD years ago - why bring up your forgetting to do things after all these years - except to excuse her piss poor behaviour - which it doesnt - just makes her more of a bitch for trying. Her idea of 'popping down the road' when she wants sex - whats up with buying herself a case of duracel batterys and something to shove them in if your sex life has been lacking recently. You have been ill - of course you are not going to be feeling the same enthusiasm for some things as you used to, I dont know what your end result will be health wise - hope it goes for good hun. She didnt go out get pissed up and wake up with her knickers round her ankles - she courted with this guy - and he is an utter bastard, the pair of them sound bereft of mortals. You cant turn off love like a light switch, and I know you hurt - but how much worse will you feel lying in bed at night knowing where she is and what she is doing. The idea of a threesome is dumb in my opinion - because you love her. Protect yourself financialy, as others have said - and collect any evidence you can 'in case of'.
An antipodean smile for you -
What is the definition of a drunk?
He who from the floor, can not rise, and drink, and ask for more.
Take care of yourself - and if the dog is yours and you can walk it - do so. Relieve her of the responsibility - surely the other chap doesnt want three dogs in his house.
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