My ears are very noticeable. Just 2 6g piercings but I wear talon style jewelry. Sometimes bone, but mostly steel because I like the weight.
also had my tongue pierced from like 10 years ago til about 2 years ago. I just started to hate having it, or like, the image of having it, seemed like every person I knew that had a piercing in the tongue was an attention whoring douche and would try to find reasons to walk around with their mouth open/hang out the tongue, whatever trying to be like "HEY WORLD LOOK AT WHAT I GOT" meanwhile I had people who knew me for 6 months that didn't even realize I had mine.
I've thought about getting a few more, labret, bridge, but other than that I think I'm fine with where I'm at.