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Originally Posted by ralphie250
I understand everyones opnions. Some are good and i disagree with some of them. Some of us have reasons to knock marrage and others dont. I personally take my vows seriously. That is why i am willing to put up with the lack of sex, because other areas make up for it as stated earlier in this thread.
Hopefully in a year or 5 she will reach her sexual peak and i will be happier with out love life. (but by then i proablly wont want to have sex. Lol)
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For the last decade of my marriage I said the same thing, tried every thing possible to get her interested but as someone said before, you gotta look at the raw materials. She never was interested in hetero sex and I wasn't going to change her. I loved her and told myself that having a best friend and partner was worth the frustration and feelings of inadequacy. Once the issue came to a head, after seeing her completely let loose with another woman and realizing that it isn't going to be fixed, we split. Now I have found someone who is my best friend, partner *and* exciting and satisfying lover.
Everyones mileage may vary, and I don't recommend any course of action. Just sharing my experience.